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 In a healthy relationship, partners are  c ompatible .  C ompatib ility  means that the partners agree on major and vital areas of life. The degree to which you agree will determine how well your relationship works. If you are not  c ompatible , the relationship will never work no matter how hard you try or how much external assistant you receive.  C ompatib ility  is one of the major or keys that make  your relationship work. You should be spiritually, emotionally, intellectual and physically  C ompatib ility  with your partner. You can't force  c ompatib ility . You can't lie about it. If you pretend and lie to be what you are not, you are in an unhealthy relationship. Successful partners are socially, spiritually, intellectually  c ompatib le . You may be spiritually  c ompatib le  but you may not be socially  c ompatib le . Your spiritual  c ompatib ility  will not solve the problems of la...

Communication is a major key to building a successful relationship. Couples who communicate, make it. You and your partner are most probably from different backgrounds, have different personalities, life experiences and may even have contrary views on several issues. In order to bond with your partner, you need to be able to talk to him or her and be listened to. Here are The Biggest Relationship Issues Couples Will Face And How To Tackle Them Communication is the process by which you and your partner experience your views, beliefs and ideas on any issues to each other. It helps you discover and unravel the goodness you have in each other. It opens the doors of your heart to each other. You explore your personalities and  potentialities with openness. You embark on a mysterious journey of discovery, not really knowing why you will find, but still anticipating the best. Communication is not all about talking , it also has to do with listening. In a relationship where the partne...

Successful relationships face up to the reality of life. The partners do not hide behind a façade, neither do they make up their own reality of life. Life is as it is. What you see may not agree with your innermost fantasies, but what is what there is. You cannot confess away your reality neither can you hide from it. You must look at it in the face if you want your relationship to succeed. Related post: 6 Ways To Have More Fun In Your Long-Term Relationship There may be some areas in your partner's personality that don't just make sense to you. Instead of living in denial, telling yourself that he or she will change with time, tell yourself that this is who he or she wish is. If he or she changes, good, but if not, you are prepared to live with him or her for the rest of your life. You may decide to live in fantasy and tell yourself that your partner is going through a phase , he or she will outgrow such behavior (you wish). Holding on to such unrealistic expectation will...

Successful couples have  fun. They learn to enjoy the journey of discovery. Getting to know your partner can be fun and exciting if you have a positive attitude to the whole process. As best of friends, you should enjoy each other's company more than any one else in the world. If you don't get excited about spending time with him or her, you may be with the wrong partner. Funny Husband And Wife On A Bicycle You might also like to check the  Meaning Of Courtship And The Importance Of Courtship In Marriage Make your partner enjoy talking with you, sharing ideas with you, going out with you, spending time with you. If your partner travels out of the country on a business trip or course, let he or she wish you were there with him or her. You are the closest person to him or her. If you are not an enjoyable person to be around, your partner may begin to think he or she has made a grievous mistake in choosing you. Instead  of your relationship being an exciting adventur...

Successful couples forge a strong bond which leads to deeper intimacy and love in the relationship. You might also like to check the  Meaning Of Courtship And The Importance Of Courtship In Marriage Bonding is the process by which you and your partner connect on a more intimacy and deeper level. Inability to bond will result in a superficial, selfish and myopic relationship which won't take you very far as a couple. Bonding keeps you focused and centred on each other. You no longer look outside for your real partner to come along. When you bond, you know deep down that you've found your partner and you are comfortable with him or her. People who are forever looking out for a better person, will never be stable enough or even last long enough to bond with their partners. Out with Pick Up Lines, In With Conversation Also Read:  Tips to Reignite the Romantic Spark in your Relationship , A lady may keep looking out for a richer, more handsome and successful Man so, she neve...

When God Shuts a door. Revelation 3:7 And to the angel of the church in Philadelphia write; These things saith he that is holy, he that is true, he that hath the key of David, he that openeth, and no man shutteth; and shutteth, and no man openeth. Samuel Akins worked in a bank for fifteen years until there was a change in management and he was laid off. After searching for another job for months he came to the realisation that his skill-set was useful in the banking industry and the banks had no vacancy for a man at his level. After he bemoaned his situation for a few more months he started praying and asking The Lord what to do with his life, that was when Lord stirred up an idea He had given him some years earlier which was to venture into real estate development. When The Lord gave him that idea he was comfortable in the bank and refused to explore it. But after months of joblessness and dwindling financial resources he was desperate for solutions to his situation, so he pursue...

 Making God the centre of your life will place your relationship on the oath of the success. Couples who are God centered have it far easier than couples who aren't. Here are  Questions To Ask Your Partner Before Marriage . Recognising that God is interested in the success of your relationship and turning it over to him removes a lot burden and anxiety from you. You realize that you are no longer struggling on the power, ability and grace of God to help your relationship success. In a God centered relationship, decisions are taken based on the principles of God's words. No individual partner get up and make a permanent decision without first consulting the oracle of God's. God's oracle is his word which address every major issues we will confront in life. When you consult God before making your decision, you acknowledged his wisdom and give Him room to operate freely in your life. Also Read:  Tips to Reignite the Romantic Spark in your Relationship You should lea...

Good morning to you all the readers of this blog . This post was designed to help you navigate successful thorough the exciting and sometime difficult process of finding a nurturing, worthwhile and fulfilling relationship. To get your idea partner, you should know the difference between the woman or man who is good for you and one who is probably wasting your hard money and your precious time. I believe this twenty one (21) mistakes mistakes single ladies and men make will serve as a guide to help you locate, connect and work out the details of a marriage bound relationship with the right woman or man for you. Without wasting much of time, let me quickly go into the list of twenty one (21) mistakes single men and single ladies makes. Here we go. 1. WHAT DO I WANT?: In the male to female relationship, you have to decide  the kind of person you want. You also need to become the person you desired in all areas of life, so that when he or she appears, you will recognize  R...

               1.  HER BODY:  God designed a woman in such a way that when a man sees her, he is attracted to her. Her beauty guarantees that she is noticed, wanted and valued by the man. So a man is first attracted by a woman's beauty and body; this is a natural reaction. In fact, if you are not attracted to her physically,  you may not be able to enjoy staying around her. However, a relationship is not founded on nor is it sustained by a  woman's beauty but by other virtues she possesses. If these virtues are none existent, no matter how attractive, s£xy or beautiful she may look like, the relationship will fail. If all you find appealing about her is her body, your relationship will be s£x based, very shallow. Related Post:  One Secret Behind A Successful Relationships A s£x based relationship will fail. You cannot afford to marry a woman because she is s£xy; so are many prostitutes but why have you not approache...

My bothers over there, there are certain types of woman you should not get involved with if you want t to have a very successful life a d marriage. If you are presently involved in a relationship with any of them, now is the time to dump them. HERE ARE THE FIVE KINDS OF WOMAN OR LADY YOU SHOULD NEVER MARRY OR DATE . 1. AN IRRESPONSIBLE WOMAN : My brothers you are lucky if you across this article, don't ever try to marry or date a lady or woman that does little or nothing for herself. She depends on other to handle all the responsibilities of her life. This woman does not like to pay her bills, dept, or other financial responsibilities incurred by her. She is ever Learning on  another person to do the most duties that life demands from her. This woman gets by with her charm, beauty and charisma. People go out of their way to help her handle certain of her responsibilities when she  applies continuous pressure on them. When she get married to you she will expect you to handle...

Success couples are open to themselves in their relationships. Openness has to do with expressing your real feelings. Simple Steps to Take Care of YourRelationships . In a successful relationship you express your feelings without fear or intimidation of any kind. You are free to be yourself. Fear of rejection may keep you silent instead of expressing yourself. You can get angry at him or her and say what you really feel about an unpleasant situation or word spoken by your partner. You can laugh or cry as you feel like without pretense. Where emotions are bottled up and not expressed, the relationship will be one of pretense; it is just a matter of time before it runs into big problems. Even if things look great on the outside, there will be very strong underground currents of dissatisfaction and discontent waiting for an opportune moment to explode. Such unexpected feelings compound with time and become greater than what they initially were. For instance, your partner may make...

Women are talkers, men are solvers.” This is one of the first statements I make to couples when we begin our work together.  I have found that this one difference is often the underlying cause of the infamous statement “They just don’t get me.” This difference is even more prevalent when either one or both individuals within the marriage are grieving. Grief changes us, and when we change our relationships have to adapt or else, they won’t make it. If you or your spouse have recently lost someone you love, I encourage you to read the tips below to help you grow together, instead of apart. You can also read  THE FIRST 10 THINGS TO DO ONCE DARLING ASKED YOU IN MARR SOLVED. Tip #1: No two relationships are the same.  Therefore, no two people will grieve the same way. A mother and father will grieve differently for the loss of their child. There is no right way to grieve. Crying doesn’t always mean healing, and silence doesn’t always mean denial. We do what works for us, i...

You’ve long ago inhaled the early dating phase of forgoing sleep for intimate conversation and unquenchable sexual desire. You’ve committed yourselves to each other in some meaningful way, be it cohabitation, marriage, or child rearing. You’ve seen each other sick with boogers and puke, held each other up at a funeral, and learned how to navigate the strange waters of your in-laws’ quirks.  Check The==> THE FIRST 10 THINGS TO DO ONCE DARLING ASKED YOU IN MARRIAGE . You know what she prefers on her waffles and in her coffee. You know his family home burned when he was 8 years old, so he’ll always have to check the oven one last time before leaving the house. You know. And yet somewhere along the way, you look over at the person sleeping soundly just inches from your face and realize he is a complete stranger … there’s a stranger in your bed! Your identity has continued evolving without her participation. Or you’re not sure ...

Successful couples operate by law of forgiveness. People are not perfect. No matter how mature you and your partner are, there are still several areas of your life you both are working on. There will be several occasions where o e person says the wrong word or does the wrong things that causes an offence. Must Read:  How To Plan For A successful Relationship . Doing something that offends, irritates or annoys your significant other does not mean that you don't care or that you don't have genuine feelings of love for him or her. What it means is that you are still in the process of maturing and growing up. Successful partners realize this, therefore they leave too to accommodate such mistakes and this us where forgiveness comes in. You have to learn to forgive your partner if you want your relationship to work out. Unforgiveness creates so many problems in the relationship. Must Read:  Meaning Of Courtship And The Importance Of Courtship In Marriage   There are peopl...