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In a situation whereby a lady ask you the following question Tell me about your family?  You can be sure she is interested. Also Read: What is the most dangerous thing destroying relationships? Must Read . I might fall for you. Why are you so sweet?  You are slowly interfering   in her thoughts. Had a good time with your girlfriends?  I am missing you baby. Won’t you just say something?  Just keep this going. Whatever it is. Just talk to me. Question For You: What is a mature relationship and an immature relationship? How do I look?  If she is going to some place important. Won’t you take me out?  You are expected to escort me Mister. Better make time. Well, If a girl likes you and you both are still a good friends only by words and you will find you more happier than ever. I too had such situations in my life. Also See: the most dangerous thing destroying relationships . She will whatsapp you even in midnigh...

Mature couples don't “fall in love,” they step into it. Love isn't something you fall for; it's something you rise for. Falling denotes lowering oneself, dropping down and being stuck somewhere lower than where you started. You have to get up from falling. Also Read : 13 Questions You Need To Ask Your Self Before You Starting A Relationship With This Ladies . Love isn't like that — at least not with people who are doing it right. Immature couples fall; mature couples coast. Because love is either a passing game, or it's forever. Love is either wrong, or it's right. A couple is either mature or immature. Believe it or not, there are differences in relationships, and they’ve been categorized into two distinct types — mature and immature relationship. The differences between these two relationships has a lot to do with how much work is actually put into the relationship. However, there are some tell-tale signs that you need to know about; because you def...

I found the perfect person for me! I found the one! I’ll be happy forever now! All I have to do is bask in the glory of being with him and leave my happiness for the rest of my life up to him/her! Also Read: 10 Tips for Happy Family Home . I see this mistake often, and it KILLS relationships. Believe me when I say this: the only person responsible for your happiness is YOU. You, and no one else. Not even if he’s/she’s the one, the most perfect person in existence, the only person you could ever love. Even THEN, you’re the only one who’s in charge of your happiness. Also Read : 13 Questions You Need To Ask Your Self Before You Starting A Relationship With This Ladies . When you put someone else in charge of your happiness, it destroys your ability to feel happy without them, and it also destroys your relationship, as He/she crumbles under the weight of trying to keep you happy. Don’t make this mistake. Take charge of your own happiness in your relationship and just enjoy spend...

I found the perfect person for me! I found the one! I’ll be happy forever now! All I have to do is bask in the glory of being with him and leave my happiness for the rest of my life up to him/her! Also Read: 10 Tips for Happy Family Home . I see this mistake often, and it KILLS relationships. Believe me when I say this: the only person responsible for your happiness is YOU. You, and no one else. Not even if he’s/she’s the one, the most perfect person in existence, the only person you could ever love. Even THEN, you’re the only one who’s in charge of your happiness. Also Read : 13 Questions You Need To Ask Your Self Before You Starting A Relationship With This Ladies . When you put someone else in charge of your happiness, it destroys your ability to feel happy without them, and it also destroys your relationship, as He/she crumbles under the weight of trying to keep you happy. Don’t make this mistake. Take charge of your own happiness in your re...

1. If your goal is to have a satisfying marriage with longevity, make sure you are accountable for the part you play in the relationship. When you are in denial about your part in the relationship then you are no better than a child flinging sand at another child in a sandbox. When you take responsibility for your part in the marriage, only then will you be able to connect with your partner in a mature, intimate way. Also Read : 13 Questions You Need To Ask Your Self Before You Starting A Relationship With This Ladies . 2. Research consistently shows that touching more creates a stronger bond by releasing oxytocin. Hold hands, rub shoulders, hug, kiss, give high-fives or even fist-bumps or bottom pats. When you give a quick hug or kiss, try to lengthen it to at least 5 or 10 seconds for more effective results! 3. Learn how to agree to disagree. No two people agree on everything, and that's okay, but it's important to be okay with each other's differences. 4. Sometimes...

Here are some things I’ve learned so far about my  marriage: Silent treatment will silently kill your marriage. And that means if you ever get pissed of with each other for whatever reason, no matter how big or small, make every effort possible to make up with each other before you close your eyes to sleep. Ditch the ego, seriously. Go kiss your husband first and say sorry if that will solve things. Go hug your wife and do something sweet for her out the blue. Take physical intimacy to your advantage when/if you have to. If it’s going to help you two to make up before you go to sleep, don’t hold back! Related Post: Two Keys to a Successful Romantic Relationship . Never bad mouth about your husband or wife to other people. Me and hubs strictly follow this rule. Unless your husband or wife is physically/or mentally abusing you, keep your arguments/fights to yourselves.  You know why?  9/10 times people who take sides for you and your husband, will o...

- 2017 was a year of political tension, repeat elections, celebrity births and of course lavish nuptials - Oddly enough, many thespians and musicians decided to finally say I do to their soul mates - TUKO.co.ke has lined up the most memorable celebrity weddings of this year and prepare to be wowed 1. Catherine Kamau aka Celina This former mother in law actress and Harpic brand ambassador made a gorgeous bride and her dress was just to die for. She got married to her long time boyfriend Phillip Karanja and their honeymoon photos were just breathtaking. Catherine Kamau and her husband Phillip Karanja. Photo: Catherine Kamau/Instagram 2. Bahati and Diana Marua Gospel singer Bahati held a lowkey ceremony that was attended by his family and close confidants. He tied the knot with his wife Diana Marua and the two are expecting a baby. Bahati and Diana Marua held a secret wedding. Photo: Bahati/Instagram 3. Uhuru's son Jomo The first family also had a r...

Here are 12 amazing secrets that will help you achieve a great body though your eating habits. 1. The Ultimate Diet Plan The most trusted source of fitness and weight-loss information for women, we spend countless hours thumbing through medical journals, nutrition news reports, and exercise studies. Plus, we’re lucky enough to have access to the secrets of the women whose livelihoods depend on staying shapely and sexy: actresses, singers, models, and trainers. With this wealth of information at our fingertips, it’s only natural for us to spill the lessons we’ve learned to our readers. Enter  The Bikini Body Diet . This new book by  Shape  editor-in-chief Tara Kraft is the ultimate diet and workout plan to help you achieve your best body ever—and maintain it for the long haul. While this program produces results in a matter of days, it’s not just a quick fix. This science-backed plan is based on strategies that help women like Tara and ou...

A 50-year-old Ugandan man identified as Mohammed Ssemanda, has surprised all and sundry by marrying three women at a wedding ceremony, and the newly weds were all captured on camera, all smiles at the event. While speaking to New Vision newspaper, the groom who is a food vendor in Kasenyi landing site, a Kampala surburb, said he opted for the joint wedding with his three wives due to lack of finance to hold separate functions. He said;  “My wives are not jealous against each other. Good enough, each one has got a home and I promise to work harder and support them”. The man’s first wife, 48-year-old Salmat Naluwugge, has spent 20 years with him and they have five kids, while the others are; 27-year-old Jameo Nakayiza, and 24-year-old Mastulah, who are sisters. “I thank our husband for marrying us all at once, a sign that will not discriminate or sideline any of us,” a visibly overjoyed Naluwugge said at the wedding.

Nearly everyone has been involved in long distance relationships at some point in their life. Most of us have failed to maintain it, and have inevitably broken up, even though it may have been a promising relationship. Why is that so? What are the common reasons for breaking up in those relationships, and how can you make them work? Long distance relationships have both advantages and disadvantages. For some, the distance is a good way to slowly open up to the relationship without the incessant presence of the partner. The romance stays kindled because you aren’t around the person 24/7, having to see various habits and routines that can get repetitive. In terms of disadvantages, it is very frustrating that there is no intimacy, no hugging, no kissing – at least between the meetings. You will experience difficulties in connecting because you don’t have eye contact, and can’t spend time together. Then again, that makes th...

I have been dating a man for the past seven months who  travels constantly with his job.  I am 32 and he is 35. Because of  his work, sometimes we don’t see each other for up to five weeks at a time, then we meet for a few days. I really miss him but it works. We recently had a frank discussion about sex and both admitted we had slept with another person recently. Strangely, I did not feel any jealousy but my friends have been shouting me down. I like my set-up – it’s exciting and convenient. Should I have felt some jealousy? I love him just the way he is, but my friends think otherwise. Should I listen to my friends? Also Read: some Reasons Why men are scared of marriage     Love Or Compatibility - What's More Important To A Marriage?. [Must Read    #5 Early Signs Of An Unhealthy Relationship . If you found this tip useful, don't forget to share with your friends and family with the share button on the top right o...

Jealousy is one of those emotions that eats you from the inside if not handled in the right manner. The truth is that this feeling dwells in virtually everyone, we only exert different levels of control over it. This article is therefore to help if you have challenges with control; to teach you how to deal with jealousy in your relationship. Well, the first thing to understand is that jealousy is an instinct that we humans have to protect us from losing the person we love. So, it is totally natural to feel jealous and it’s totally natural to express your jealousy too. You can’t totally take away jealousy from your relationship. A good dose of it is needed to keep your feelings in check, and like every drug, an overdose can kill your relationship. Now, the question is how to express jealousy in the right manner?  And the simple answer to this question is that we want to be reasonable about it. We want avoid the two extremes:  ignorance and neediness . ...

This weekend, after 18 months together, my boyfriend told me that he cared very deeply for me and that we had the best partnership he’d ever experienced, but he did not love me because there was a spark missing. So he ended things in a kind and mature way. He is not the first to do that to me, and I can’t help feeling like I am under a curse. I mean, how else do I explain why guys never truly love me? We’re both in our 30s and the entire thing has been kind and mature and caring (and sexy and vulnerable and honest) from the beginning. I’ve dated my share of guys who were bad partners, and this guy was a good one. And although I am hurt, I get it. I also know that he was always a little bit on the fence about letting me fully into his life. (Literally and metaphorically: Whenever I would go to his apartment there would never be a place for me to sit. He would have clothes and books and projects piled on every single one of his chairs and his sofa.) So I ...

It’s quite worthy of note that being the wife of a Soldier is special. I once learnt that Soldiers are trained to treat their wives specially and with utmost respect. This may be reason why a particular woman from my childhood always walked with shoulders high, much to the envy of other women. I may have believed that women who marry Soldiers have little or no worries until I stumbled upon this real life account on Daily Mail. This woman opened my eyes to the hard realities of being the wife of a Soldier. Please read below: I am an Army wife and I relish every second of it — the good, the bad and the occasionally ugly. For some reason, I feel incredibly proud of being a military spouse even though I wasn’t the one who had to get through an extremely tough entrance test, go to the Academy and train to be a soldier. But my association with someone who did do all of that — my husband — gives me a lot of pride and pleasure. Maybe it’s becaus...

A friend of mine did a beautiful analysis at the condition of present world’s system with respect to decline in the number of marriages. It was a follow up to a discourse about why  some women would remain unmarried even if they really want to get married.  So I decided to do this article to explain my position about why many men are scared of marriage in a country like Nigeria. Men are scared of marriage. Even in countries with great economies, rich men don’t want to get married because they fear their wives could ask for half their property when/if they divorce. In Nigeria, the cost is too high and men are just comfortable doing it “solo” or having “baby mamas.” The fact that my religious inclination disapproves of that doesn’t make it an issue for me to be silent about. We might think all issues will be solved if we are “delivered” from a kind of demonic oppression through many night vigils and all, but checkin...

Here are the list of eight advice wrote by a divorced man to every singles and married man should take take note. 1. Don't disv1rgin a girl, lady or woman unless she is your wife. NOTE there is a blood covenant between a man's soul and that of a woman during d1svirginity. This blood covenant brings about a spiritual contact that stay turn to posses a man spiritually, precisely it leads to infidelity and committing of fornication in several rounds that is if at the end you dont marry the lady. 2. Secondly avoid having s£x with prostitutes, prostitutes are not just those at hotel or club, any lady is an falls a victim to committing fornication with several men is a prostitute. So avoid prostitutes because they are possessed human beings and once you settle with them you will also be posed. Therefore, you will be running errand for fornication or adultery. 3. Say no to s£x before marriage. Their  some guys pretend to say that s£x before marriage is food for detecti...

Prayer is one of the keys that help to build up your relationship along positive lines. Prayer helps you focus on God's plan, purpose and direction for the relationship. When you both bray, you ask God to step into and take charge of the relationship. We all have challenges in various areas of our lives and we need divine intervention to help us triumph in these situations. Putting God first in prayer ensures that the spirit of God will be present to give direction to the relationship. Prayer strengthens you to go through difficult periods of your relationship. When you pray, you bring God's power to bare on the relationship. There are several things that may affect or negatively influence the eventual outcome of your relationship. Prayer will expose such areas to you and help you confront them courageously. There may be spiritual forces that are opposed to the success of your relationship which you are unaware of, but as you pray, the spirit of God will reveal such to you ...

In a successful relationship, the partners are involved in a program of personal development. One of the keys to a real intimacy is openness. Only mature people can afford to be sincerely open with each other. In a relationship where both of you are continually building up your self-esteem by reading, attending seminars and mixing with other like minded people, it accelerates the rate of personal development which reflects directly on the health of your relationship. Also Read : 13 Questions You Need To Ask Your Self Before You Starting A Relationship With This Ladies . In a relationship where self development is given no priority, the partners become stunted mentally, emotionally and spiritually thereby hindering the growth of the relationship. There is usually no real intimacy because the partners are not maturing and leaving behind immature and insecure behaviour. The more you expand your consciousness by reading and connecting with brighter minds, the easier it becomes for you ...