What is a mature relationship and an immature relationship?

Mature couples don't “fall in love,” they step into it. Love isn't something you fall for; it's something you rise for. Falling denotes lowering oneself, dropping down and being stuck somewhere lower than where you started. You have to get up from falling.

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Love isn't like that — at least not with people who are doing it right. Immature couples fall; mature couples coast. Because love is either a passing game, or it's forever. Love is either wrong, or it's right. A couple is either mature or immature.

Believe it or not, there are differences in relationships, and they’ve been categorized into two distinct types — mature and immature relationship. The differences between these two relationships has a lot to do with how much work is actually put into the relationship. However, there are some tell-tale signs that you need to know about; because you definitely want a mature relationship.

1. Immature relationships leave unanswered questions in their wake.
But mature relationships don't ask them in the first place. "Is she faithful? Does he love me? How long will we be together?" The mature relationship doesn't require this kind of validation. There's trust, comfort, and security in them.

2. Immature relationships are often missing something.
But mature relationships feel complete. There isn't the feeling of something missing at all. There is no void to fill, no empty spaces to patch up.

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3. Immature relationships peter out.
But mature relationships are strong as long as they last. It may seem like a "normal" relationship thing for the two to grow distant to one another, but that's not really normal. The love and passion should be just as alive as the day you found it.

4. Immature relationships seek proxies for fights.
But fighting is natural; texting is not. Mature couples do not spend their days bickering over a screen. When they have something to work out, they do it face to face — where the meanings can't be misconstrued by emojis and auto correct. Immature couples fuel their relationship with incessant bickering and lengthy messages. The argument itself needs to be face to face. They need to be able to hug and kiss when it's done. They need to fully experience one another and the pain or dissatisfaction they've been putting up with.

5. Immature relationships find themselves being threatened by outside factors.
But mature relationships are strong, inside and out. No one comes between the two people in a mature relationship. They're as sturdy as a redwood and tougher than diamonds.

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6. Immature relationships function in timelines.
But mature relationships aren't preoccupied with when moving in together should happen. Proposals come on their own time. The length of an engagement is up to them. There are no cast, creed or cultural norms that force their way into a mature relationship. They don't need it.

7. Immature relationships focus on your past.
But a mature relationship doesn't give a rat's ass about what happened to you in the past. Your partner won't care where you've been or who you've been with. All that matters is the here and now.

So, when you feel as though you step into love with someone (instead of falling in love with them), you may well be on your way to the most mature relationship of your life.

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Well according to me, Love is easy. It's the easiest thing you've ever done. It's the calmest place in your life, the safest blanket you've ever worn. It's something that happens naturally; it doesn't need to be fought for day in and day out. When you love someone, and he or she loves you, and there's no doubt to his or her feelings and no doubt to yours, that's peace of mind. A peace of mind you've never had before... the kind that humbles and revives you.

A mature relationship lives by this peace of mind; immature ones drown in it.

We all get wrapped up in love. It's easy to spend days in bed and weekends in the hazy world of blankets and kisses.

But eventually, that smothering love is replaced with motivated love — a type of love that comes when you want to make a life with someone and work hard to get that life. Immature couples never get to this.

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