How Important Is An Emotional Connection In A Relationship

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Successful couples forge a strong bond which leads to deeper intimacy and love in the relationship.
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Bonding is the process by which you and your partner connect on a more intimacy and deeper level. Inability to bond will result in a superficial, selfish and myopic relationship which won't take you very far as a couple.
Bonding keeps you focused and centred on each other. You no longer look outside for your real partner to come along. When you bond, you know deep down that you've found your partner and you are comfortable with him or her. People who are forever looking out for a better person, will never be stable enough or even last long enough to bond with their partners.
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A lady may keep looking out for a richer, more handsome and successful Man so, she never gets committed to any relationship. Tue man is always frustrated because no matter how much he tries to please this lady, she  seems distant, detached and disconnected from the relationship. Such ladies ate in it for that they can get in the immediate. They do as little as possible to make their relationship wok, shifting total responsibility for the success of the relationship to man.
Ladies who find it very difficult to be open and intimate with a man will never bond with any man no matter how good he is. The root cause of this behaviour may be rejection from a past relationship or from her parents.
This fear will keep her emotionally inaccessible to the feelings of her partner.

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With passing time, the man will begin to see her as insensitive and may be too unconcerned about him to give her best to the relationship. In the end, he will dump her for another lady, that is, if she doesn't dump him first. A circle of rejection builds up and continues in her life making it more difficult for her to connect with any man.
Some of such ladies may struggle and force themselves into a marriage with an ingenious display of role acting, deceiving everyone including the man they profess to be in love with. You cannot be in love with someone you have not bonded with. What you have is list or lies and that neither of them will sustain or make a relationship successful.
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To bond is to connect deeply emotionally, spiritually and mentally with your partner. Physical bonding takes place latter in marriage. If you try to force physical bonding to take place by engaging in premarital s£x, it will destroy your relationship. Emotional, spiritual and mental bonding prepares you both for physical bonding in marriage. S£x out side of marriage does not guarantee bonding, spend time together and connect on a deeper emotional, intellectual and spiritual level.

The second thing is to Making God the centre of your life will place your relationship on the oath of the success. Couples who are God centered have it far easier than couples who aren't.
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Recognising that God is interested in the success of your relationship and turning it over to him removes a lot burden and anxiety from you. You realize that you are no longer struggling on the power, ability and grace of God to help your relationship success.
In a God centered relationship, decisions are taken based on the principles of God's words. No individual partner get up and make a permanent decision without first consulting the oracle of God's. God's oracle is his word which address every major issues we will confront in life. When you consult God before making your decision, you acknowledged his wisdom and give Him room to operate freely in your life.
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You should learn to be in agreement. Learn to think and pray through every issues you face apart from relationship. Life change decisions should never be taken in a hurry, without consultation by both partners or without subjecting the decision to a period if intense prayer and thinking.
When you put God first, you live by His scripturally prescribed standards for you. You don't compare your relationship to others or permit external unscriptural forces to influence and control the relationship. Your relationship is regulated by scriptural values and principles. When you put God first you will enjoy His peace and comfort in your life.
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