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Questions To Ask Your Partner Before Marriage.

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When a relationship moves from the love stage to the commitment stage, then the partners are really serious about making it work. Most relationships falter and fail because the partners are not really committed to making it work. They enter into the relationship with the mind-set that if it works, good; but if it doesn't, they will look for another partner. With such a negative philosophy ruling the minds of both partners, they will be unable to weather the storms that must of necessity come to test the authenticity of the relationship. Because of the differences in the partners' personalities, backgrounds and values, conflicts are bound to arise. These conflicts are normal to every relationship but if the partners are not prepared for them, they may just take the easy way out and look for another partner elsewhere. Must Read: How To Plan For A successful Relationship . To make a relationship work, your commitment must be unequivocal. This means that you have your mind made...

How To Plan For A successful Relationship [Must Read]

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Successful couples plan for The future togetherness. A relationship is more than just being friends. Going out and having good romantic times. There is a divine reason why you are attracted to this person and why you want to spend the rest of your mutual love for each other; you should discover God's will for your future and plan for it. You both have your individual dreams, this brings mutual trust and respect to the relationship. One partner is not left feeling like he or she is bearing the burden of the success of the relationship. Both partners are equally contributing to it. But for the relationship to succeed, you must move to the next level; that is for both of you to sit down and chart a course for your future together. Before a ship leaves the port on a voyage the captain charts a course for the journey. This charted course guides and directs all the members of the crew on what to do. When storms arise in the middle of their journey, the crew sticks to the coordinates...

Why Marriage Blows? And How Can we Solve This? [Must Read]

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Marriage blows have become common phenomenon even among Christians today. Some are total neglected and it seems there is no options to go forward, rather the threat of divorce. The message of God for you today is that there are ways to get your marriage back on track. However, there is need for repentance. Acts 17:30. Must Read:  Meaning Of Courtship And The Importance Of Courtship In Marriage   OUTLINES OF MARRIAGE BLOWS ARE LISTED BELLOW: 1. Why marriage blows. 2. It can be better still. WHY MARRIAGE BLOWS?: A successful marriage is something that two people work hard at building together, if this is not present, there are bound to be blows. The causes are: a). The foundation of a marriage relationship is key to its  success. You can check it in the following bible verses psalm 11:3, Ruth 4:13 . b). Unfaithfulness of either of the couple or both. c). Skipping out things that are important to your spouse. d). Emotionally distancing yourselves after a disagree...

Meaning Of Courtship And The Importance Of Courtship In Marriage

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Courtship simply means a period before marriage, where a brother and sister agree about so many issues and see if they both share the same vision, hope and aspiration about marriage. Courtship involves two people that have agreed to walk together, in the direction of marriage. To day i will like to reveal why courtship is a most for every successful relationships. Also Read:  6 Elements Of Successful Relationship   THE IMPORTANCE OF COURTSHIP Courtship is very important and necessary for the intending couple to observe, if they want to enjoy their marriage. It is during courtship that proper biblical foundation must be laid down in order to have a happy married life. It is a period to get to know each other intimately apart from carnal knowledge and illicit romance. Before you venture into wedding plans, both of you must agree on many things like what you both want for your marriage. Know each other's strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes and parents. Both of you mu...

5 Reasons Why Long Courtship Not Advisable For Youth [Must Read]

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Courtship simply means a period before marriage, where a brother and sister agree about so many issues and see if they both share the same vision, hope and aspiration about marriage. Courtship involves two people that have agreed to walk together, in the direction of marriage. To day i will like to reveal why courtship is a most for every successful relationships. Related Post:   Five Kinds Of Woman You Should Never Date Or Marry . WHY LONG COURTSHIP NOT ADVISABLE? Long courtship, in the interest of the two partners, is not advisable. In some  church and even without religious when we look at it, long courtship of not less than two years is encouraged with the hope that with such time input, the couple will get to know each other properly. This can, however, easily expose the partners to s£xual temptations and  thus break the divine constitution “touch not, fast not and handle not” Colossians 2:21 . Besides, human  beings can pretend and hide tr...

10 Foundations Of Every Successful Relationship...

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Marriage is a sacred vow between a man and a woman publicly acknowledged, permanently sealed and physically consummated. The subject of marriage must be based on agreement Amos 3:3 , nurtured with love continuously, with required adjustments and sacrifice by both the husband and wife. Colossians 3:18-19 . Also Read:  What Is True Love? And How To Know If You Have Found It   OUTLINES OF MARRIAGE BLISS ARE; 1. foundation for marriage bliss. 2. Element of continuous marriage bliss. 1. FOUNDATION FOR MARRIAGE BLIS S: Bliss in marriage means having spiritual, physical and emotional joy in your marriage. Marriage is like a beautiful garden. We fall in love, get married, have children and raise a family. The following foundations ate required for a blissfully marriage: Must Read:  One Secret Behind A Successful Relationship a). Be true to your vow. Play your part in your marriage irrespective of the shortcomings of your spouse Ecclesiastes 5:2-6 also  confirmed it....

Meaning, Causes And Solutions To Marital Unfaithfulness [Must Read]

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The word of God Says man must leave to his own wife (Genesis 2:24) . The bible also commends chaste matrimony in all sorts of men, and threatens utter destruction from God against whoremongers and adulterers. MEANING AND CAUSES OF MARITAL UNFAITHFULNESS You Might Also Like To Read:  Ladies And Gentleman, Can Class Driven Relationship Work? Marital unfaithfulness talks about inability of either or both of the partner's in marriage to adhere to the vows and contract of marriage as stipulated by God in the Bible. To be faithful is to lose the sense of commitment and dedication to one's partner in all ramifications of it. Here are some of the likely causes of marital unfaithfulness: 1. Failure to provide for the basic needs of the partner or home. (1Timothy5:7-8) says And these things give in charge, that they may be blameless. But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel. 2. Infideli...