5 Reasons Why Long Courtship Not Advisable For Youth [Must Read]

Courtship simply means a period before marriage, where a brother and sister agree about so many issues and see if they both share the same vision, hope and aspiration about marriage. Courtship involves two people that have agreed to walk together, in the direction of marriage. To day i will like to reveal why courtship is a most for every successful relationships.
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WHY LONG COURTSHIP NOT ADVISABLE?
Long courtship, in the interest of the two partners, is not advisable. In some  church and even without religious when we look at it, long courtship of not less than two years is encouraged with the hope that with such time input, the couple will get to know each other properly. This can, however, easily expose the partners to s£xual temptations and  thus break the divine constitution “touch not, fast not and handle not” Colossians 2:21. Besides, human  beings can pretend and hide true identities until after the real marriage. To save the intending couple, therefore , a minimum period if six months and maximum of one year is recommended or advisable
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THE IMPORTANCE OF COURTSHIP
Courtship is very important and necessary for the intending couple to observe, if they want to enjoy their marriage. It is during courtship that proper biblical foundation must be laid down in order to have a happy married life. It is a period to get to know each other intimately apart from carnal knowledge and illicit romance.
  Before you venture into wedding plans, both of you must agree on many things like what you both want for your marriage. Know each other's strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes and parents. Both of you must realise that marriage means till death do us part!
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It is a time to plan for the wedding and the marriage. One vital issues that must be addressed during this period is to obtain the consent of both parents Genesis 24:54-59  says And they did eat and drink, he and the men that were with him, and tarried all night; and they rose up in the morning, and he said, Send me away unto my master.
And her brother and her mother said, Let the damsel abide with us a few days, at the least ten; after that she shall go.
And he said unto them, Hinder me not, seeing the LORD hath prospered my way; send me away that i may go to my master.
And they said, We will call the damsel, and enquire at her mouth.
And they called Rebekah, and said unto her, Wilt thou go with this man? And she said, I will go.
And they sent away Rebekah their sister, and her nurse, and Abraham's servant, and his men. It is a period to undertake marriage counseling lessons. After proposing to a lady and she has agreed to marry you, the next thing to do is to Abbey the biblical injunction to prove all things 1 Thessalonians 5:21. Secretly indulging in bodily, emotional and s£xual pleasures at this stage with your marriage partner is a sin Romans 12:1-2. Don't engage in premarital s£x, It is a potential sign of marriage failure that destroyed many relationships.
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In conclusion, our heavenly Father is the best friend anyone can have but also the worst enemy a man can have. Remember He is the one that ordained the institution of marriage. It will be dangerous for anyone to attempt to establish a hone with Him. Courtship is not a period to play pranks. Watch and be warned
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