Why Marriage Blows? And How Can we Solve This? [Must Read]

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Marriage blows have become common phenomenon even among Christians today. Some are total neglected and it seems there is no options to go forward, rather the threat of divorce.
The message of God for you today is that there are ways to get your marriage back on track. However, there is need for repentance. Acts 17:30.

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OUTLINES OF MARRIAGE BLOWS ARE LISTED BELLOW:
1. Why marriage blows.
2. It can be better still.
WHY MARRIAGE BLOWS?:
A successful marriage is something that two people work hard at building together, if this is not present, there are bound to be blows. The causes are:
a). The foundation of a marriage relationship is key to its  success. You can check it in the following bible verses psalm 11:3, Ruth 4:13.
b). Unfaithfulness of either of the couple or both.
c). Skipping out things that are important to your spouse.
d). Emotionally distancing yourselves after a disagreement.
e). Putting pressure on each other, forgetting God as the provider.
f). Always pointing out the weakness of your spouse is an instrument of blow in marriage.
g). Engaging unbelievers to settle misunderstandings.
h). Laziness of either couple.
I). Stinginess in money issues and rationing s£x affairs.
j). Incompatibility could lead to marriage blow in several ways.
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IT CAN BE BETTER STILL:
In acknowledging that divorce is not the solution in Marriage conflict, then God should be involved.
a). Realise the mind of God towards your marriage. which means, it is God's institution.
b). Be sorry and repent from past wrongs. 1john 1:9, Proverbs 10:12.
c). Desire to obey God and fuel Bliss within yourselves. Acts 5:29, John 12:48.
d). Be present and pray for each other Ephesians 6:18, Timothy 2:1.
e). Keep your temper in check and apologise when you area wrong. Proverbs 15:1.
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f). The must be smooth communication in all things especially s£x issues. 1Corithians 7:2-3, 1peter 3:1
In conclusion, the main idea today teaching is to focus on restoring the connection and put the past in the past. You can eventually move forwards and reconnect in your marriage. This will save the message and connect you back to God when you feel like all hope is lost.
Also Read:  Meaning, Causes And Solutions To Marital Unfaithfulness.
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