Relationship Tip's: Reasons Why Most Relationship Scattered? [Must Read]
Before you get completely overwhelmed with love and head for marriage with this lady or man, you should make sure that you both are compatible. What i mean by compatibility is that are you compatible, reasons is that both of you have several areas of your life that agree. The degree to which you agree will determine the extent to which the marriage will succeed. Love blinds your eyes to several issues that may create problems for your marriage in future. The excitement of falling in love most times make you let down your guard, standards and values. If you have possible compatibility issues to deal with and you don't, these same issues may end up destroying your marriage I future.
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My brothers and my sisters reading this post, don't deceive yourself. Go through this post and examine any of the compatibility problems that may be inherent in your relationship. Deal with and them now, or live to regret it in future.
Am going to explain why your social styles different? which you and i needs to know before you get completely overwhelmed with love and head for marriage with this lady or man.
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ARE YOUR SOCIAL STYLES DIFFERENT?:
You may have a wild, hilarious, exuberant, fast and energetic social lifestyle, while she may have a slow paced, quite, almost sedentary social life; you may have major problems in future. Right now you are excited because she understands, cares and tolerates all of your excesses but after you marry her, she may not be the one who is quite, slow placed, almost sedentary but she is the exuberant one. Your points of social agreement must be stronger than your points if disagreement if your relationship will succeed.
Your similarities should therefore be more than your differences. Your personalities types should not be the same, but your social styles must complement each other. If you are an outgoing sanguine or choleric, you are most times attracted to an introverted melancholy or phlegmatic. Two same personality types who get married may find it extremely difficult to get along.
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You both must be able to enjoy the same things at least 60-80% of the time. Anything bellow 50% may lead into trouble in future, if you are not social compatible, your relationship will not work.
During courtship, he or she may agree to go out to all the places you love to go, dress like you want him or her to dress, even associate with your friends because he or she wants to win your love by all means. But a man or woman convinced against him or her will is of the same opinion still. After marriage, if you ever get that far, he or she may revert to his or her old ways. What you should realize is that love makes people do what they will not normally do.
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If the differences in your social life style are too many, it will definitely create problems which may hinder the growth of your relationship. Don't try to compromise your major values to accommodate him or it may back fire in future.
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