How Can You Recognize A lady Or Guys Who Genuinely Loves And Cares For You? [Must Read]

How can you recognize a woman who genuinely loves and cares for you? How can you distinguish between the jokers, time wasters, and the serious contenders for your love? How can you easily detect a woman who is out to remove rather than add to your life? Who is that lady who loves you? Love in this context, is commitment to a serious relationship that is marriage bound. Study the anatomy of a woman who loves you. Take each quality and mirror the woman you are thinking of getting married to. If she doesn't posses these traits she most probably is not for you.

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DON'T EVER MARRY A LADY OR WOMAN WHO DOESN'T PROCESS THE FOLLOWING TRAITS;
1. SHE IS AVAILABLE: This woman you want to marry must be available, availability means that she is not attached to someone else. How can you differentiate an available woman from an unavailable?
She is unavailable if;
1. She is married,
2. She recently left her husband,
3. Her relationship has problems,
4. She has a man in her life,
5. She is engaged to marry
6. Her husband is in another country, state or town.
When a woman likes you; depending on the intensity of her desire, she is usually ready and willing to do or say almost anything to get you. A  married woman may be going through some challenges in her marriage, if you are close to her, she may confide a lot in you. She is vulnerable and looking for encouragement. What she needs is emotional support, but most times, what happens is that she gets emotionally involved with this man trying to help her through a difficult period of her life and this result in another problem. That is why couples who divorce too hastily, always look for a way to reconciles as long as the possibility still exist; that is, if no other woman or man is involved.
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 2. SHE IS PRODUCTIVE: Being productive means she is doing something meaningful with her life. She is financially able to handle her own part of the responsibility of marriage. She may be a student, but she is always creating opportunities for herself to advance financially in  life. If she is not doing anything to improve her financial status, she is not the one for you. An unproductive woman will bring untold pain into your life.
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3. SHE LISTENS TO YOU: Does she listens to you? Does she ask you for advice when she is going through a difficult time? When you suggest a course of action to take during a crisis, does she ever consider it as an option? Does she want to know what you feel about a particular situation? Is she attentive when you talk to her? Listening to you doesn't mean that she does everything you tell her to, if she does, she has no individuality. She is an automation with no brains to think for herself. If all you do is give her orders to carry out, she has become your slave. Listening however means that she is always willing to change her mind if she feels that the course of action you suggest will bring better result. If she is not listening to you, maybe you have nothing of value to offer her.
As a leader you should be more than averagely developed spiritually, mentally and emotionally. If you are not growing, she may  outgrow you and become the leader in the relationship.
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4. SHE IS PRESENT: Being present means that she is not separated from you by very long distance. That is , she lives in another parr of the country or even lives abroad.
Keeping a relationship with a woman who is separated from you by distance and believing that it will work out is naive.
Communication through e-mails, phone call and letters is not enough to build a strong relationship. Building a relationship involves feeling the emotions if this woman; seeing her physical reactions to you. She may be with another man where she is living and be talking to you on the phone. How can you tell? How can you tell if she is a serious minded individual or not? How can you tell if all she is tells you  about herself is true when you can't prove any of it? How can you tell if she is not engaged in multiple relationships? Distance separates you emotionally, spiritually, physically and mentally. A phone call can never compensate for lack of physical touch and contact. If she is not present, she is not the woman for you.
5. COMMITTED TO YOU ALONE : Being committed to you alone means that she has overcome the need to be wanted by as many men as possible. She believes in your relationship and is not just trying to see if it will work out. This woman has to have you alone as her man. She is not sharing you with any other man either in her past or the present. She is not carrying an image of a past man friend who mesmerised her and is now demanding that you conform to his image. She is the woman if she has cut off all other relationships with the opposite s£x that may endanger, cripple, sabotage or destroy her relationship with you. She is committed to you when she sees no need to impress any other man but you. She only wants to impress you. You are the center of her physical universe. Her thoughts, heart and affection are for you alone.
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6. SHE MEETS YOUR NEEDS: We all have emotional needs that must be met for us to remain healthy individuals.
Does she satisfy you emotionally; do you feel confident,  whole, and peaceful when you are with her? Are you emotionally energised not just excited, when she talks with, holds or touches you? Do you feel like there is nothing impossible for you to accomplished anytime you are together? If she is not meeting some of these needs, she may not be for you. I am not talking about s£xual needs. No. She may satisfy you s£xually and yet, your relationship is emotionally bankrupt, s£xual satisfaction is what seals the relationship ultimately in marriage. If all the other needs are not met, you will still look for some one else to meet them. Men place a lot of emphasis on s£xual fulfilment not realizing that s£x begins from the mind. If this lady cannot meet all your other emotional needs, your s£x life will be nonexistent after you get married.
However, she cannot meet all your needs. You most grow up and become responsible for  how you feel and respond to life.
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7. YOU ARE COMPATIBLE: After going through the list of compatibility problems and you discover you both are compatible, this woman is for you.
There are problems that love cannot solve. Love may blind your eyes now, but you will have to face these problems in the future and by them, it may be too late to resolve them. So , look at these issues critically and effect a change if you can or look for someone else to get married to.
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