Don't Do It, Or Else You Want To Destroy Your Relationship [Must Read]

We all are emotional creature. Our emotions generally control and direct the course of our lives. What we do is primarily determined by how strongly we fell about it. What you don't feel strongly about, you ignore. Our emotions through repeated exposure to a particular act, place, person or object can begin to form an attachment which subconsciously begins to control the course or direction of our lives.

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What our souls are tied to may not in themselves be bad, but the tie inhibits, limits and restricts us, holding us 'bound' as it  were to that  particular person, place, act or thing. Some people have soul tie or strong emotional attachment to their church or company. Even when they  realize that their time is up, and they've even made up their minds to leave, they find themselves strongly and irresistibly attracted and drawn back to this church or company. This is a soul- tie at work. Some are attached to certain objects; it may be a house, a pieces if jewelry; a work if art; clothes, furniture etc. People develop strong emotional ties to these objects and find it difficult to let go and give them up even when they are no longer useful to them.
The most dangerous kind if soul  ties however are created through s£xual intercourse. Having s£x with someone you love ties you up emotionally and spiritually with this person. The reason why s£x is solely reserved for the married alone is that when man makes love to a lady he loves, a powerful, inexplicable bonding occurs which is profound. This connection helps the couple to cement their relationship in an unbreakable bond.
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For the married, this is a blessing because their emotions are now centred on each  other. Their focus is on each other. They are inextricably tied in their souls: this further amplifies and strengthens the love that already exists between them. They are now drawn to each other emotionally, spiritually and spiritually. They are one. But for the unmarried, a soul-tie can be a serious problems, depending on the level of intensity of the emotions at play.
This is what happens: a man has a s£x with a lady whom he feels to strongly about; months later, they break up and go their separate ways but he has now connected or tied himself to her emotionally. Try to imagine an invisible rope connecting his soul with her wherever she is in the world.
After a while, he enters into three other relationship and repeats the same thing. Now he has four soul-ties with four different ladies. He doesn't realize he has a problem until he is about to get married to the lady he wants to spend the rest of his life with, then his soul ties begin to act up.
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Because he is emotionally connected to these four women, his mind begins to give him problems. He begins to assess his fiance through the eyes of the soul-ties he has. The ladies from the past who are still influencing him emotionally and subconsciously, begin to judge this lady. If she doesn't possess the characteristics of the ladies from his past, he may conclude that she is not good enough for him and reject her.
This man may genuinely love this woman but his soul ties from the past will keep on controlling him to choose a woman who is like them. Of course it is virtually impossible for this woman to be like any other woman in his life, so he rejects his love for her and dumps her, no matter how far into the relationship they've gone. The woman doesn't realize what is going on; the man keeps telling her to change, to be like his soul-ties: Alicia, Keisha, Adiza and Maya has no idea what he wants from her. Repeating this behavior eventually sabotages the relationship.
A more insidious dimension to soul ties is the spiritual problems they created for both parties involved. The spirit of this woman will keep in influencing this man and refuse to let him go even when she is married to her own husband. This man keeps on dreaming, hoping and  subconsciously praying that the woman will come back. He may begin to seek her house and try to recreate the relationship that once existed between them.
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If the woman had any spiritual problems they may be transferred to the man. A man who sleeps around open a spiritual door that attract all kind of negative spirit into his. Some women and men are used by the enemy to carry and transfer curse and spells through s£xual contact. If you have s£x with any such woman. You will begin to experience all kinds of problems and spiritual attacks. Majority of men can link the beginning of their problems to the day they had s£x with a woman they were not legally married to. You can however break their influence over you by repenting of your sin and by prayer.
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If you don't deal with the root cause of your soul tie, you may keep on sabotaging every relationship you enter into. The woman never want to say, it seems as if something withing you drives then away.
The easiest way to deal with soul ties is to break off completely from your past. Throw away pictures, gifts and every other items that connects you with that person. Secondly, pray until you break the connection between both of you.
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