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Relationship must not be competitive. Because a successful relationship is build on the principle if mutual respect for each other. The partners recognize the value  of each other in the relationship. When you both feel secure in yourself, you won't need to prove anything to tour partner to be accepted by him/her. Or if you always feel a need to prove that you are as successful or even better than him/her you are completing with him or her. You may be trying to prove your self to your partner  because you don't think you are good enough, successful enough or rich enough to be his or her partner. Your feelings of inferiority will keep on motivating you to go the extra mile to prove yourself. You always wait to listen to his/her comments about what you do or say because you are not secure in yourself. You might also try to use your success,. Wealth or position to control the direction in which the relationship will go. But in a healthy relationship, the partners complement

The starting point of every successful relationship is having is that the male and the female must having a clearly define purpose. A define purpose is that when you meet a person to whom you feel  drawn  to, you begin to think of getting closer to this person and knowing this person better. Most people never take time to think through and properly define their reason for wanting a relationship. And mind you not every relationship with the opposite s ex is supposed to be romantic. There are people who are tour business associates, course mates, colleagues at work, friendly neighbours and church members. Don't be quick to say you are going out with him/her because people ask you embarrassing questions. If nothing romantic is happening between you, just say you are friends. Things You Need To Ask Yourself  If You Are Attracted To Start A Relationship With Someone . 1. You need to ask yourself why i want to develop a relationship with this person? 2. Do i want him/her as a frien